Be genuine
Use your real first name, your own recent photos and honest details. You must be 40 or older. One account per person.
Be respectful
Take "no" gracefully. No insults, threats, hate speech, or unwanted sexual content. Don't send repeated messages to someone who hasn't replied.
Not allowed
- Asking for or offering money, loans, investments or gifts.
- Advertising, recruiting or soliciting of any kind, including commercial sex.
- Harassment, stalking, intimidation or sharing someone's private information.
- Impersonation, fake profiles or misrepresenting your age or marital status.
- Nudity or explicit photos on your profile.
Consequences
Depending on severity we may remove content, hide a profile, suspend an account, or permanently remove it. Scams, threats and harassment usually lead to permanent removal without refund. We may share information with law enforcement where required by law.