What we collect
- Account details: email address and sign-in information.
- Profile details you choose to share: name, photos, bio, city, country, interests, intentions and preferences.
- Date of birth — used only to confirm you are 40+ and to show your age. Never shown to others.
- Optional verification selfie, seen only by our review team.
- Messages, interests, saved and hidden profiles, blocks and reports.
- Payment records from Paystack (amount, plan, reference, status). We never receive or store card details.
How we use it
To run the service, show your profile to paying members, prevent fraud and abuse, process payments, send notifications you've allowed, and respond to support requests.
Who can see what
Only members with active access can see profiles and photos. Messages are visible only to the two participants. Our admin team can access account and report data when needed for safety and support.
Your choices
You can edit your profile, hide from Discover, pause your profile, hide your last-active time, manage notification preferences, block members and delete your account at any time.
Deletion and retention
When you delete your account we delete your profile, photos, verification selfie, interests, conversations and messages. We keep payment and subscription records and safety reports as required for accounting, legal and fraud-prevention purposes.
Contact
For privacy requests, contact support.